PCOS+ Pregnancy the struggles you face

Today I am doing something a little bit differently. Most the time when I post a blog its about information regarding something specific. I will add a few personal thoughts and feelings in, but the most the time its about the information. Today its about the feelings and emotions that go along with it.

 I have been keep track of a lot of women and the struggles that they are facing everyday. Whether they are ttc for the first time or if they have children already and are ttcing for a second or third time. I understand the struggles that go with ttcing. I have struggled for 6 years now trying to have a precious baby. I prayed and prayed that it would happen, went through surgery hoping that would help, took the bc pills that the doctor said would work and nothing worked. I watched friends and family get pregnant and was happy for them, but at the same time was depressed that my husband and I were having no luck.

 During this time all I wanted was for someone to wrap me in a hug and say "keep your chin up, keep trying, one day it will be your turn." I have had plenty of friends and family offer to be a surrogate for us if that was what we needed. That was never the problem, I can carry a baby its just the matter of having an OV. So many of the stories that I have read remind me of those days. The heartaches, depression and just being ready to throw in the towel. Trying to figure out how to move forward and how to stay on the journey of making your dreams come true.

 I wish that I could reach out to each one of you that is going through this right now and give you a big hug. Let you know that there are so many people out there that have been in your shoes and are supporting you through your journey. If you need help, support or just someone you can rant and rave at, please reach out for that help. Dont try to go through it alone, it makes things easier when you have a support group walking your journey with you. We will catch you when you start to fall, wipe the tears away when they fall, give you a shoulder to lean your head on when you just need to rest, and an ear to listen when you just need to talk, and we will give you advice and information when you are ready to ask for it.

I am sending warm wishes, baby dusts and hopes to all of you out there that are going through this journey and please know that I am going through this journey as well, I am always here for you.

Thank you
Tabitha